it will not let me join my server and it says the owner is my gmail not my MC account can any one help?
What address are you trying to connect with? The owner listed in the control panel is your control panel username, which is your email address. This is how it should be and it does not affect anything in-game. To use commands in-game, you have to add yourself to the operators list. In the control panel (http://mc.hosthorde.com/), go to the "Console" page and enter the command "op playerNameHere". Be sure to replace "playerNameHere" with your actual player name.